-> We welcome men to engage in a consensual exchange of erotic and sexual energy at PDA
-> Though there will be intimate touch and body contact, this is not a sober sex party, not a place to hook-up, nor a retreat simply for sexual gratification
-> The Academy weekend will be an opportunity to learn new intimacy and communication skills while practicing the tools of 12-step recovery
-> PDA welcomes sober men who have sex with men
-> We want men from diverse backgrounds, including all body shapes/sizes, skin colors, cultures, ages, socioeconomic statuses, & dis/abilities
-> Trans-men are welcome to PDA
No! But it does look that way at first. The PDA retreat is all-inclusive, you just need to get here. Your registration covers food and lodging, including snacks. Good food, too, we're not cutting corners here. And it still ends up being significantly cheaper than other retreats and conferences. The registration page has some helpful comparisons to make this more obvious.
Exciting Days
August 7 to 10, 2025
Deloro Valley
Embrace a journey of self-discovery, where you’ll explore the depths of intimacy and erotic communion in a safer, respectful, and non-judgmental space. Celebrate the joy and wisdom of your body, and connect authentically with others who value spiritual paths and creativity for playful interactions.
This Academy is not just a retreat; it’s the formation of a lifelong community, offering strength, support, and love.
Demos
Workshops
The Academy is a three and a half day residential conference which requires agreements to our terms and pre-registration.