Vision and Mission

Pepper Diet Academy (PDA) offers safe, affirming spaces for sober, sex-positive men to explore intimacy, connect deeply, and embrace their sexual identities without shame or reliance on substances and compulsive behaviors.

Grounded in the principles of 12-step recovery, PDA supports men in building confidence, communication, and community on their journey in celebrating their authentic selves and eroticism.

PDA Strives to:

  • Normalize shame-free, consensual intimacy among sober men who have sex with men
  • Provide tools for communicating desires, setting healthy boundaries, and navigating complex emotional dynamics
  • Support sobriety in sexually charged or triggering situations
  • Foster intimacy and connection that is not reliant on substance use or addictive behaviors
  • Integrate spirituality and sexuality for holistic well-being
PDA 2025 Testimonial #1 Designation

The Deloro Valley venue was a perfect setting.

It was so evident that the planning committee put in the work to pull off
an incredible retreat with inspiration, safety, and community.

Plus, the food was amazing.

PDA 2025 Testimonial #2 Designation

I felt very safe to explore my boundaries.
The demos were informative and beginner friendly.
One thing that surprised me in a good way was the focus on "consent".

I was expecting a big sex energy vibe but what I felt was intimacy, friendship, safety, and support.
Plus, I enjoyed the slings too.

PDA 2025 Testimonial #3 Designation

I feel that the recovery communities can vary in how they view sex, intimacy, and kink.
Some are very positive, some groups are neutral, and some feel that those are an outside issue.
I personally need to work thru issues around intimacy in order to be a successful member of society, and to continue my recovery.

PDA was in many ways exactly what my recovery needed.

PDA 2025 Testimonial #4 Designation

I really appreciate how you wove recovery so deeply into this weekend of
sexual/relational exploration, challenge, and growth.

It created a safe space for me to reflect and share on issues which I have struggled with
over the last 3 (soon to be 4 years) in recovery and were causal factors in my addiction journey.

I so appreciated this experience and look forward to being back next year.

PDA 2025 Testimonial #5 Designation

The workshops and experiences were well thought out, engaging, fun, erotic, and everything in between and the fact that we were given options of which track to explore and dip back and forth between was FANTASTIC.

I have taken so much from the weekend and am wondering what PDA 2026 will bring!

PDA Testimonial #6 Designation

An incredible weekend!

The boys, the daddies, the pups,
ohhhh... and my HP too!

Help Make PDA Happen

We are funded by registration fees, donations, and grants. Your donation helps to make this experience available for those who would like to attend but are unable to afford it.